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NAHREP 10 Disciplines: Self-Awareness & Meaning

In a time when achievement is often mistaken for fulfillment, the question of what gives life true meaning has never been more urgent. Many chase success but feel no satisfaction. They build wealth but lack peace. As someone who trains and coaches others using the NAHREP 10 Disciplines, I have seen firsthand that meaning is not found in accolades or approval. It is created through alignment, action, and accountability.

Meaning is not something you stumble upon. It is something you build with intention. And the foundation is discipline.

Simon Sinek teaches us to start with why. John Maxwell reminds us that leadership is influence. Brene Brown urges us to lead with vulnerability and integrity. These principles, echoed in the NAHREP 10 Disciplines, point us toward a powerful truth. When you align your daily actions with your highest values, your life becomes meaningful because it begins to matter to others.

As a NAHREP 10 Certified Trainer, my mission is to help professionals grow their impact by living with intention. Whether you are building a real estate business, creating financial freedom, or becoming a role model in your community, the lessons are the same. Be honest with yourself, stay disciplined in your habits, and lead with vision, as highlighted by the NAHREP 10 Disciplines.

Self-Awareness of your Financial Position

Every step toward lasting growth begins with one critical act: telling yourself the truth. Not sugarcoating. Not avoiding. Just getting real. This isn’t about guilt—it’s about ownership. Because when you clearly see where you stand, you finally have the power to change it.

One of the most transformational financial habits is knowing your net worth. It’s not just a number—it’s a mirror. It reflects how you’ve handled money, what habits you’ve built, and where your priorities lie. Tracking your net worth forces you to face the truth: what you own, what you owe, and what direction you’re actually heading in.

When you do the math, you stop guessing—and start growing. Because awareness leads to smarter decisions, and smarter decisions lead to financial freedom. That’s why this NAHREP 10 Discipline isn’t optional. It’s foundational within the NAHREP 10 Disciplines framework.

Mastery and Growth is a Core Value

A life without skill is a life without direction. As professionals, we must commit to being excellent at what we do. That means becoming a student of our craft. It means reading, training, practicing, and sharpening our thinking every single day.

Clarity in language and confidence in communication are more than soft skills. They are tools of influence. Whether in a client consultation or a family conversation, those who can speak clearly, listen actively, and write with purpose are those who lead with impact.

Being coachable is one of the most underrated disciplines. It is not about admitting weakness. It is about welcoming growth. A willingness to learn from others and evolve your mindset is how you stay relevant and resilient, as highlighted by NAHREP 10 Disciplines.

The Climb to Success: Discipline and the NAHREP Path to Impact

No worthwhile goal comes without resistance. The best leaders are not those who had it easy. They are those who chose to keep climbing when things got hard. If you want to be in the top 10 percent of your profession, you need to train for it like an athlete. Not just with more effort, but with more intention.

Success is not about working more hours. It is about doing the right work with the right mindset, for the right reasons. When your purpose is clear, your energy has direction. When your goals have depth, your discipline becomes sustainable. Aligning with the NAHREP 10 Disciplines makes this journey easier.

Civic Engagement and Advocating with Purpose

One of the most important but often overlooked aspects of building a meaningful life is the ability to impact change beyond your immediate circle. True leadership includes understanding how laws, policies, and government systems affect your business, your community, and future generations.

Being politically savvy means staying informed about public policy, engaging with your local representatives, and using your voice to advocate for the interests of underserved communities. It is not about partisanship or political theater. It is about responsible citizenship and strategic involvement in the systems that shape opportunity.

The NAHREP 10 Disciplines challenge us to use our influence not just for profit, but for progress. Whether you are supporting housing legislation, advocating for fair lending, or encouraging civic participation, your engagement matters. Change does not happen by chance. It happens when prepared leaders show up.

Call to Action

Now is the time to begin. Whether you are reflecting on your finances, your leadership, or your community impact, the shift starts with one decision—to become more intentional, more informed, and more aligned. You have the power to begin that change today.

If you are ready to lead a life that is not just successful but significant, reach out. I would be honored to support your growth, your business, and your role in creating generational wealth within your community. Whether through a strategy session, a training workshop, or simply a meaningful conversation, let’s move forward together.

Contact Mark Pinilla to explore how the NAHREP 10 Disciplines can help you grow, give back, and lead with impact.

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Dan Nziniga – Living the NAHREP Discipline #10

Dan Nziniga

Dreamworks – Inspiration Community Owner & Leader Dan Nzinga is being recognized for living Discipline #10.

Blood Isn’t Always Thicker Than Water: The Power of Chosen Family

They say that blood is thicker than water, but sometimes, there is no blood bond around. As a college student studying abroad, I found myself in a foreign country with no family by my side. My host family, though not related by blood, welcomed me with open arms. Almost instantly, I became a brother and an uncle, embraced as one of their own. Now, more than thirty years later, I am still called “uncle” and “brother,” a testament to the deep, unbreakable bonds we forged.

This experience embodies NAHREP’s 10 Disciplines, specifically Discipline #10: Be Active in the Lives of Your Family and Children (Learn more), because Familia is central to who we are. But family is not always defined by genetics—it’s defined by love, support, and shared experiences.

I see the same spirit reflected in Dan Nzinga and the community he has built. Through 21-day challenges, weekly Zoom calls, and constant mentorship, Dan has created his own family of coaches, trainers, and leaders who support one another in their personal and professional growth. He doesn’t just teach—he cares, guides, and inspires. His leadership has cultivated a self-made family that rallies around him and uplifts those who follow his path.

Every day, Dan delivers a dose of positivity and growth, reminding us that our true family isn’t always the one we’re born into—it’s the one we choose, the one that chooses us, and the one that pushes us to become better versions of ourselves.

Well done, Dan! Keep inspiring and leading your extended family to greatness.

Connect with Dan Nzinga: LinkedIn

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You Can’t Control Everything, But You Can Control Your Response

Life has a way of humbling us. One moment, everything is going smoothly, and the next, you’re hit with an unexpected challenge—a job loss, a heartbreak, a health crisis. We scramble, trying to regain control, but here’s the truth: You don’t control the storm. You only control how you sail through it.

John C. Maxwell says, “Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.” Eric Thomas tells us that pain is temporary but quitting lasts forever. So, if we can’t dictate every outcome, how do we shift our energy toward winning despite the chaos?

1. Control Your Mindset

Your thoughts dictate your actions, and your actions shape your future. When you face obstacles, you have two choices: Let them defeat you or use them as fuel to push forward. Instead of saying, “Why me?” start asking, “What can I learn from this?” This mental shift transforms pain into power.

Exercise:

Every morning, practice gratitude. Write down three things you’re grateful for. This rewires your brain to focus on abundance instead of lack.

2. Adapt, Don’t Resist

Resistance leads to suffering. The more we fight what we can’t control, the more exhausted we become. Instead, embrace adaptability. Like water, flow around obstacles instead of smashing into them. Life doesn’t stop moving, and neither should you.

Action Step:

Identify one thing in your life you’ve been resisting and find a way to embrace it. Instead of fearing change, ask yourself, “How can this make me stronger?”

3. Channel Your Energy into What Matters

Worry drains energy. Fear paralyzes. Instead of obsessing over what you can’t change, shift your focus to things you can influence. Can’t control the economy? Master your financial discipline. Can’t control other people? Master your reactions. Your energy is a currency—spend it wisely.

Quick Hack:

List three things you can control today and take action on them. Small wins create unstoppable momentum.

4. Surround Yourself with Resilient People

Energy is contagious. If you surround yourself with complainers, you’ll become one. But if you align yourself with warriors—people who push forward despite adversity—you’ll rise with them.

Challenge:

Audit your circle. Who inspires you? Who drains you? Adjust accordingly. Choose to walk with winners.

5. Give More Than You Take

When life feels unfair, the best way to reclaim your power is by giving. Acts of kindness shift your focus from lack to abundance. Serve others, and you’ll find renewed purpose in your own struggles.

Mission:

Perform one selfless act today. Whether it’s a kind word, a donation, or a helping hand, put positive energy into the world.

Your Call to Action: Rise Up!

You weren’t made to break. Life is testing you not to destroy you, but to make you stronger. Refuse to be a victim. Choose to be a fighter. Embrace challenges, adapt, and thrive. Because at the end of the day, the ones who succeed aren’t the ones who control everything. They’re the ones who master themselves.

Are you ready to turn obstacles into opportunities? Start today. Share this with someone who needs to hear it.

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